Community Guidelines

Last Updated: April 8, 2026

Welcome to the Vibe With Me Community

Vibe With Me is a music social platform built for the live music and festival community. When you meet someone at a show, you tap your Vibe Tag or scan a QR code to instantly connect — no searching for usernames, no follow requests. Your shared concerts become part of your Show Journal, a personal history of the people and music that brought you together.

These Community Guidelines help ensure our platform remains a safe, welcoming, and positive space for everyone who shares a passion for live music.

By using Vibe With Me, you agree to follow these guidelines and help us maintain a vibrant, respectful community.

Our Community Values

Respect and Inclusivity

  • Welcome Everyone: We celebrate diversity in musical taste, background, and identity
  • No Discrimination: Harassment based on race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, religion, disability, or any personal characteristic is not tolerated
  • Safe Spaces: Everyone deserves to feel safe while connecting over music
  • Constructive Communication: Disagree respectfully and focus on the music, not personal attacks

Authentic Connections

  • Be Genuine: Use real photos and accurate information in your profile
  • Honest Interactions: Be truthful about your music preferences and event experiences
  • Real Relationships: Focus on building meaningful connections, not collecting contacts
  • No Catfishing: Misrepresenting your identity undermines trust in our community

Music-Focused Environment

  • Celebrate Music: Keep conversations centered around musical experiences and shared interests
  • Support Artists: Respect musicians, venues, and the live music ecosystem
  • Share Experiences: Help others discover new music and events through your posts
  • No Commercial Spam: Don't use the platform primarily for selling or promoting businesses

Encouraged Behavior

Positive Engagement

  • Share Your Musical Journey: Post about concerts, festivals, and musical discoveries
  • Support Others: Engage with community members' experiences in the Pulse feed
  • Recommend Music: Help others discover new artists and genres they might enjoy
  • Be Welcoming: Help new users feel comfortable and included in the community

Safe Meeting Practices

  • Public Spaces: When meeting someone from the app, choose public venues and events
  • Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, prioritize your safety
  • Bring Friends: Consider bringing friends to meetups, especially for first meetings
  • Stay Connected: Let friends know when and where you're meeting someone new

Quality Content

  • High-Quality Photos: Share clear, appropriate photos that represent you accurately
  • Thoughtful Descriptions: Write meaningful vibe descriptions that help others connect with you
  • Honest Reviews: Share constructive feedback about events and experiences

Prohibited Behavior

Harassment and Abuse

  • No Bullying: Harassment, intimidation, or threatening behavior is not tolerated
  • No Hate Speech: Content that attacks or demeans individuals or groups is prohibited
  • No Stalking: Repeatedly contacting someone who has not responded or asked you to stop
  • No Doxxing: Sharing someone's private information without consent

Inappropriate Content

  • No Sexual Content: Sexually explicit content, including suggestive photos or messages
  • No Violence: Content depicting or promoting violence, self-harm, or dangerous activities
  • No Illegal Activities: Discussion or promotion of illegal activities, including drug use
  • No Inappropriate Event Content: Content that disrupts live music events or violates venue rules

Misuse of Platform Features

  • No Spam: Sending unsolicited mass messages or repetitive content
  • No Fake Accounts: Creating multiple accounts or impersonating others
  • No Commercial Abuse: Using the platform primarily for business promotion without permission
  • No System Abuse: Attempting to hack, manipulate, or abuse our technical systems

Vibe Tag and QR Code Misuse

  • No Malicious Codes: Creating QR codes or NFC tags that link to harmful content
  • No Unauthorized Sharing: Sharing someone else's QR code or Vibe Tag information without permission
  • No Inappropriate Placement: Placing Vibe Tags or sharing QR codes in inappropriate venues
  • No System Manipulation: Using technical exploits to bypass auto-share settings or privacy controls
  • No Counterfeit Tags: Creating or distributing fake Vibe With Me NFC tags

Live Event Etiquette

Respecting Venues and Artists

  • Follow Venue Rules: Respect photography policies, capacity limits, and behavior guidelines
  • Don't Disrupt Performances: Avoid excessive phone use, talking, or disruptive behavior during shows
  • Respect Personal Space: Be mindful of others when connecting at crowded events
  • Support Artists: Purchase official merchandise and respect intellectual property

Safe and Respectful Networking

  • Read the Room: Be aware of the setting and timing when approaching someone new
  • Accept "No" Gracefully: If someone isn't interested in connecting, respect their decision
  • Be Patient: Not everyone will want to share their QR code or tap your Vibe Tag immediately
  • Consider Others: Don't monopolize someone's time or attention at events

Digital Etiquette at Events

  • Appropriate Timing: Share QR codes or offer Vibe Tags during breaks or casual moments, not during performances
  • Battery Awareness: Keep your phone charged for safety and connection purposes
  • Group Consideration: When joining groups, introduce yourself and be inclusive of existing conversations
  • Privacy Respect: Don't photograph or record others without permission

Safety Guidelines

Personal Safety

  • Trust Your Instincts: If something feels wrong, prioritize your safety over politeness
  • Meet in Public: Always meet new connections in public, well-lit areas with other people around
  • Share Your Plans: Tell friends where you're going and who you're meeting
  • Emergency Contacts: Keep emergency contacts readily available and your phone charged

Digital Safety

  • Protect Personal Information: Don't share sensitive information like your address, workplace, or financial details
  • Privacy Settings: Use our privacy controls to manage who can see your information and contact you
  • Report Concerns: Report suspicious behavior, harassment, or safety concerns immediately
  • Secure Accounts: Use strong passwords and enable two-factor authentication when available
  • Location Privacy: Your location is only shown at city-level unless you choose to share more

Event Safety

  • Stay Hydrated: Take care of your physical wellbeing at events
  • Know Your Limits: Be aware of alcohol consumption and its effects on your judgment
  • Stay with Friends: Use the buddy system when possible, especially at large events
  • Emergency Plans: Know venue emergency exits and procedures

Reporting and Enforcement

How to Report Violations

  • In-App Reporting: Use the report button on profiles, messages, or content that violates guidelines
  • Support Contact: Email support@vibewithme.co with detailed information about violations
  • Emergency Situations: Contact local law enforcement for immediate safety concerns
  • Detailed Reports: Provide screenshots, usernames, and specific details when reporting

What Happens When You Report

  1. Immediate Review: Our moderation team reviews reports within 24-48 hours
  2. Investigation: We investigate the reported behavior and gather additional information if needed
  3. Action Taken: Violations result in warnings, temporary suspensions, or permanent bans
  4. Follow-Up: Reporters receive updates on actions taken (within privacy limitations)

Enforcement Actions

  • First Violation: Warning and educational guidance about community guidelines
  • Second Violation: Temporary suspension (3-7 days) and required acknowledgment of guidelines
  • Severe/Repeated Violations: Permanent account termination and potential legal action
  • Immediate Termination: Severe violations like threats, harassment, illegal content, or safety risks

Appeals Process

  • Appeal Timeline: Submit appeals within 30 days of enforcement action
  • Review Process: Independent review of original decision and any new evidence
  • Decision Communication: Appeals decisions are communicated within 5-7 business days
  • Final Decisions: Appeal decisions are final except in cases of new evidence

Group Guidelines

Creating and Managing Groups

  • Clear Purpose: Groups should have a clear music-related purpose and welcoming description
  • Inclusive Membership: Base membership on shared musical interests, not exclusionary criteria
  • Active Moderation: Group administrators should actively moderate discussions and behavior
  • Respectful Environment: Maintain a positive, supportive atmosphere for all members

Group Participation

  • Stay On Topic: Keep discussions relevant to the group's musical focus
  • Respect All Members: Treat every group member with respect regardless of their musical knowledge or experience
  • Share the Conversation: Don't dominate discussions; give others opportunities to participate
  • Support Group Goals: Contribute positively to the group's stated purpose and activities

Group Content Guidelines

  • Music-Focused Content: Share concert photos, song recommendations, and musical discussions
  • No Self-Promotion: Avoid excessive promotion of your own musical projects or events
  • Quality Over Quantity: Share meaningful content rather than frequent low-value posts
  • Respect Copyright: Don't share copyrighted music content without proper permissions

Content Guidelines

Profile Content

  • Accurate Representation: Use recent photos that clearly show your face
  • Appropriate Images: No sexually suggestive, violent, or inappropriate imagery
  • Honest Information: Provide truthful information about your musical interests and background
  • Complete Profiles: Fill out your profile to help others connect with you meaningfully

Vibe and Event Posts

  • Relevant Content: Share content related to live music experiences and events
  • Respectful Photography: Only share photos where you have permission from subjects
  • Constructive Reviews: Provide honest, helpful feedback about events and venues
  • No Piracy: Don't share illegally recorded audio or video from events

Messaging Guidelines

  • Respectful Communication: Keep messages respectful, friendly, and music-focused
  • No Unsolicited Content: Don't send inappropriate images, links, or promotional content
  • Response Respect: Don't repeatedly message someone who hasn't responded
  • Clear Communication: Be clear about your intentions and interests in connecting

Global Community Considerations

Cultural Sensitivity

  • Respect Differences: Be aware that musical traditions and social norms vary across cultures
  • Inclusive Language: Use language that's welcoming to people from all backgrounds
  • Learn and Grow: Be open to learning about different musical cultures and traditions
  • Avoid Assumptions: Don't make assumptions about someone's musical knowledge based on their background

International Event Etiquette

  • Local Customs: Respect local customs and laws when attending events in different countries
  • Language Barriers: Be patient and understanding with language differences
  • Time Zones: Be considerate of time zones when planning meetups or sending messages
  • Legal Compliance: Ensure your behavior complies with local laws and regulations

Guideline Updates

How Guidelines Change

  • Community Input: We regularly seek feedback from users about guideline effectiveness
  • Platform Evolution: Guidelines are updated as new features and challenges emerge
  • Legal Requirements: Updates may be required to comply with changing laws and regulations
  • Best Practices: We incorporate industry best practices and safety research

Staying Informed

  • Notification System: Users receive notifications about significant guideline changes
  • Regular Reviews: We recommend reviewing guidelines periodically to stay current
  • Community Discussions: Participate in community forums about guideline updates
  • Support Resources: Contact support with questions about guideline interpretation

Support and Resources

Getting Help

Crisis Support Resources

If you or someone you know is in crisis:

Community Education

  • Blog: Regular articles about building meaningful musical connections
  • User Stories: Success stories and best practices from community members
  • Safety Tips: Ongoing education about safe online and offline networking

Building Positive Vibes

Remember, Vibe With Me is about celebrating the universal language of music and the connections it creates. Every interaction you have is an opportunity to spread positivity, discover new music, and build lasting friendships.

Your role in our community matters. By following these guidelines and encouraging others to do the same, you help create a space where everyone can safely explore, connect, and share their passion for live music.

Questions about these guidelines? We're here to help clarify anything that isn't clear. Reach out to our community team, and we'll work together to ensure everyone feels welcome in our musical community.

Thank you for being part of Vibe With Me and helping us build the most positive, inclusive music community online and at live events worldwide!

These Community Guidelines are part of our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Violating these guidelines may result in account restrictions or termination. For legal terms and detailed policies, please review our complete Terms of Service and Privacy Policy.